IS BEING MARRIED TODAY, MORE DIFFICULT THAN IT WAS BEING MARRIED BACK IN THE 80'S/70'S?

I was talking to a friend who said she wants her children to be able to look back and
say, "I want a great marriage like my Mom and Dad had." That struck me.
I think we have a good marriage but do we put each other down sometimes? Yup.  Do
I snap at him for silly reasons? Yup. Do we seem really happy to our kids?  Not sure.  I hope so.

DDavid
HCM.